Giving The Ultimate Blow Job to Your man!

How to Give The Ultimate Blow Job to Your Man by Wise Woman

As we women treasure our pussy and men love it. One of the most honoring and sexy ways a man can be pleasured is when a woman adores his cock. I think a cock represents about 80% of his ego , so if you want to make your man smile from his soul; you need to completely and thoroughly ADORE his cock.

One of the BEST ways to do this is to suck it for him. And I don't mean just lightly lick it, I mean take it in your hand, devour it, lick it hard, suck it hard and feel it down your throat. First of all, men know if you like doing this or not, just by how you go about it. If you don't like it, he will know because the enthusiasm is not there.

Be PASSIONATE about giving head. Go for the gusto and it will turn him on so incredibly that he will say "I had the BEST blowjob today," and he will remember it for many hours of masturbation later. A woman in charge of the blowjob and who wants to seriously give her man pleasure is in control of him in this moment. Make sure he knows YOU are sucking him; he is NOT fucking your face!

One thing I always tell the man is not to put his hand on my head. I don't need any help pushing my head down. God I just HATE that!!!Here are some tips (hee hee, pun intended) for truly making love to your partners penis:1) Grab his cock hard and suck it hard. Let him tell you if it's too hard. Don't be afraid you will hurt him. Have you ever seen a man jack off??? You think he's going to seriously hurt himself. LOL.

He yanks that thing and pulls it so hard, you think he is going to pull it off!!!

2) Make noises like "mmmmm" or moan when you take it into your mouth. He will feel like he is a yummy lollipop as you slurp his love muscle. He is thinking to himself, "Oh she just loves my cock," and this excites him unbelievably. Remember, you are sucking his EGO.

3) Get it WET. Most men LOVE sloppy slurpy juicy blowjobs. The saliva heats up with friction and is a real turn on for the man.

4) Stroke his balls, but do this carefully. I love men who shave down there because the softness of their skin is such a turn on to me. Also, licking is more fun and sucking balls that are shaved is HOT!!

5) Create a good suction and pop his cock in and out of your mouth. On circumcised men (more common in America than anywhere in the world) the lip of the helmet is sensitive and some men just go wild when you flip this lip as if you could tip it off his shaft. This is a technique that many don't know about, but it drives men nuts. The part that is most sensitive is the part underneath where the shaft meets the head and causes a valley up the head to the pee hole. Flick this spot in an upward motion with your rigid tongue and cup the rest of the head with your mouth and lips, sucking at the same time. Then plunge his cock down your throat while tonguing his shaft wildly, creating suction as if it is stuck to the roof of your mouth. Any time you can suck then tongue then suck, you can get incredible results and moans from your man. (They are usually looking up at the heavens by this time )

6) Let him watch as you master his cock (ego). If you are lying on the bed between his legs, or if he is standing looking down, he is intently watching you. Use one hand to stroke his tummy, balls, up and down his legs, thighs, nipples, and hold his cock with the other hand so you can guide it carefully away from your back teeth. Guys, who pull your hand away, sometimes regret it because they don't realize you are keeping his precious head from those sharp grinders in the back of your mouth. If they've pulled your hand away though, it might be an indication that you were squeezing too hard, or that he wants you to take his cock deeper into your mouth, especially if he is small (4" or less) and your hand takes up most of the length of the shaft. Going all the way down is incredibly pleasurable for the man to see his cock disappear (as if down your throat).

7) One time I was with some bi men and was watching how they sucked each other, and one technique I had never tried is to start at the tip and spiral down to the bottom of the shaft. Twist your head and mouth as you go down. Apparently this feels great for the man. Go all the way down. If he is too long for you to do this, go as far as you are comfortable with going. The gag reflex kicks in when you go too far but you can circumvent that reflex with practice in opening up your lower throat. I love to be able to get ten inches down my throat. Who doesn't??? (We know where it eventually ends up don't we?? Hee hee hee).

8) Suck his balls. Men don't usually get a lot of attention to their balls because most women think they'll hurt them. But if you gently stroke them and suck them by taking one into your mouth at a time, tonguing it then moving to the other one, you will see how much enjoyment is derived from this attention. Then use your tongue horizontally up the vein of the cock and feel him gasp when you again, suck the head into your mouth.

9)Don't forget to use your tongue a lot. The flicking and wagging of your tongue using good pressure is very pleasurable. Try twirling it around the head one way, than the other way. Again, this will bring gasps and moans.

10) I recently discovered how much fun playing with an uncircumcised cock is. All that skin is fun to suck on and lightly chew on. Most men who are uncut are extremely sensitive when you expose his penis by pushing the skin all the way down and holding it down to suck him (but be careful here as some can find this painful). You have to ask the man which he prefers. Exposed or unexposed. And leaving the skin up makes it a little difficult to create and maintain a good suction, but it is much easier doing the up and down motion with gliding smoothness. Sometimes I try to leave the skin up and stick my tongue between the outer skin and see how far down I can slide my tongue in before the skin folds back with my motion. Pressure is important too. Squeezing with your lips as you move up and down is VERY important. Consistent pressure evenly squeezing with a hand and lips is usually what makes him cum.

11) Another little trick that makes my men gasp with pleasure is when I use my teeth ever so gently on the cap of the penis. Be sure there is a lot of saliva for gliding your teeth on. I start out by having my teeth clenched together at the tip of the penis. Then as I glide down the cap I slowly open my jaws. My lips are closed around the shaft as my head moves downward. Then I flick my tongue as my teeth give way and cause a suction with it. This sensation seems to bring a new experience to each recipient and usually elicits some comment like. "My God, where did you learn that??"

12) And last but not least, swallowing cum. I have asked men which they prefer. A woman swallowing his cum or him jacking off in the last seconds before he cums, onto her breasts, ass or whatever. Many men grew up watching porn and in all porn, pulling out of the mouth and other orifices is the norm, so the viewer can see the glorious "cum shot." As a result, many men associate an awesome orgasm with pulling out and cumming on her breasts, face, tummy or ass as he strokes. It is a turn on to see the fruits of your labor for sure, or feel the warm love juice on your breasts. And it's especially nice when the man then goes and gets a warm washcloth, and cleans you up after that. That is a return compliment. But most will say they want you to swallow. Of the top 5 questions MOST asked by guys online, "Do you swallow?" is one of the most asked questions. This is because if you remember in the beginning, my first point was; a man's ego lives in his penis. If you swallow his ambrosia, his EGO is given the ULTIMATE compliment.

After he cums in your mouth, slowly pull away and leave the penis alone now. It is painfully sensitive and can't bare any more attention for a few minutes. A nice warm washcloth placed on his shaft and scrotum feel lovely to him as well, while he is resting and recuperating. You are now equipped with some knowledge of how to pleasure your partner in ways he might not be familiar. Listen to the noises he makes and be acutely aware of what makes him happy. If you want to make him cum as opposed to just warming him up for hours of pleasure, just remember these 5 things: Patience plus passion plus proper pressure plus variety of moves plus swallowing his cum is going to get your man to tell you that you give the ULTIMATE blow-job.
© 2003 Tami Fox. All rights reserved.

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Pros And Cons Of The 69


Most of you know what 69 position is. The best part about the 69 position is that you and your partner are pleasuring each other simultaneously which is great any time, and it makes this position unique among oral sex positions. As for cons, the position can be a bit akward because of the angle you have to set yourself in, especially if there is a height differential between the two partners. If you want to learn more about this position, I can put a whole article to discuss it since it is one of the most popular oral positions. For now, I will discuss some other positions.

Pros And Cons Of The Standing Blow Job PositionOkay, it might not be technically called the "standing blow job position" but you get the idea – the man is standing and the woman is either sitting or kneeling on her knees.

This position is great for her to have easy access to the entire package and she will feel quite comfortable in this position because she will be mouth level with his penis instead of trying to bend over it (if he was lying flat on his back), straining her neck.


Plus, since guys also enjoy it when their partners play with their packages while giving them head, this position is good for facilitating that since it "frees" up everything and makes it easy to access.



Another reason that this position is popular with guys is because it's a common porn movie position – the guy is standing while the woman is kneeling with her mouth on his penis. So, for guys that have been fantasizing about getting in on the action that their favorite porn stars made famous, then here's a good way to start.


There aren't really any cons of this position except for the fact that only the man is being pleasured in this position, unlike the 69 position where everyone's happy.


Pros And Cons Of RimmingRimming, in case you don't know, refers to oral to anal sexual stimulation – that is, one partner licks and sucks the other's anus. This is usually performed in one of two ways – either one partner is on all fours with the other partner behind them performing anal oral sex, or one partner is on their back with their legs in the air and their partner is bent over them performing anal oral sex.

Either way, if you hadn't even heard of rimming before this, then you might want to talk about it before initiating this with your partner. Because it involves anal stimulation, not everyone will be keen on trying this out. Most folks would say yikes J But, for the more adventurous folks, rimming can be very stimulating and exciting for both partners.


The pros of rimming are simple – it stimulates an area that is often ignored and that area is full of nerve endings that can make for very exciting stimulation. The cons, on the other hand, are more significant, of course, hehehehe.


People are wary of this position because it involves anal stimulation with one's mouth. Because there can be bacteria and other germs in the area, this can really act as a turn off for many people. In order to combat this factor, you should simply make sure your partner washes thoroughly before engaging in this activity.


For example, start the night out by bathing each other and then proceed to oral sex and rimming.


Pros And Cons Of Deep Throat PositionsThere are a couple of different ways to achieve deep penetration during oral sex. In one position, the woman lies on her back with her head hanging over the edge of the bed and the man stands or crouches to insert himself into her mouth.

In this position, he controls the speed and depth of the movement which can be very good for him but requires careful planning for her sake or she might end up gagging and choking.


In another position, the woman lies on her back and the man straddles her as though they were about to have sex in the missionary position. He then moves up her body so that he can insert himself into her mouth. Again, he will control the speed and depth of movement here, so be careful before you choke her.



Road Head"Road head" is the slang term for a man receiving head while he's driving a vehicle. The cons of this position are obvious – this might cause an accident because of the lack of concentration the guy will end up paying to his driving.

Plus, it's an awkward position in most vehicles, so it may be uncomfortable for her. The pros? Well, I guess he'll be happy anytime he's getting head, right?


Oral Sex VarietyMost sex positions focus on the actual act of sex and not oral sex which is a shame because with a few small changes, oral sex positions can be just as exciting as other sex positions. In order to figure out which ones work best for you, try a few different angles and positions. You will soon learn which ones work and which ones are best left to the porn actors.