Dating Perspective of Men – What They Want Women to Know

Dating Perspective of Men – What They Want Women to Know

If you are the average guy, you know how hard it is to go on dates – especially first dates. Do you not just wish that there were a manual around that you could have your dates read, just to let her know the dating perspective of men – what they want women to know? Sure, all the supermarket magazines are full of such lists, but usually they contain some odd advice that will never pertain to you. You are more the type who wants the gals in his life to just know some of the basic perspectives, right? If so, here is a list for the rest of us – men who may never receive a write-up in Cosmopolitan Magazine, but whose dating lives are just as real and just as important.
Ladies, be yourselves when we take you out. When we take you on a date, we want to know who you really are, what makes you tick, what can make you happy, and what makes you sad. We want to find out who it is you really are, not who you think we want you to be. Do not make up stories about yourselves that are not true, and do not feel that you have to make yourself more important by telling lies about your job. We asked you out because there was something special about you already. Just be who you normally are.
If you do not want us leering at you, or having our eyes constantly wandering toward your bosom, wear something that is sexy but leaves enough to the imagination so as not to be revealing. We are sorry, but we cannot help it if our eyes are straying to your bosom if it is practically uncovered by what you are wearing. Similarly, if we are going for a walk or hike, why do you insist on wearing high heels? Yes, they are sexy, but they have no place for a hike in the woods. Save them for when we go to the club.
If you want to go somewhere, or if you have a question about where the relationship is going, please ask us directly. Do not hint or beat around the bush. It does not work, and makes for uncomfortable situations for both of us. Also, please do not be a drama queen who gets upset at everything and then will not say what is really wrong. This kind of behavior is the kiss of death for any relationship.
If you want us to love you for who you really are, do not put on a bunch of false hair extensions, fake eyelashes, colored contacts, and a padded bra. Just be yourself so that we can fall in love with the real you.
Understand that space is not the final frontier but a need that every person – including men – have. Please do not feel you have to check up on us, call us every hour on the hour, send us 10 emails every day, and have us account for every single minute of the day we are not with you. If you really feel that we are not trustworthy, then maybe you need to find someone else whom you can trust. Once in a while a guy wants to hang out with other guy and do guy things. No, we are not cheating on you, but we do want to have the freedom to be who we are.
Please remember that we love to make you happy, but we are not made from money. We may never be able to afford a house in the suburbs, a Lexus, or a diamond choker. We may be able to afford a nice pickup truck, a little condo by the beach, and probably a modest diamond ring. Do not value us by what we own, and we will not think about trading you in for a younger model when you get older.
Do not compare us to your father, your ex-boyfriend, your brother, or the guy down at the office. This is unfair and unproductive. As a matter of fact, it is downright hurtful and questions directly our own self worth. Think about it – you would not want us to compare you to every woman we run across either, would you?